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Focuses on deep connection in an experiential way.
During our sex and intimacy coaching sessions, we work to:


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Discover

What activates your sexual energy

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Heal

Old wounds

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Release

Shame around your
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Empower

You to live a more connected life with better sex and deeper intimacy!

The Somatic
Intimacy Method

...is an experiential and somatic-based approach to sexuality

I believe intimacy is experienced in the body, not just understood in the mind. That’s why working through sexual blocks often benefits from body-based intimacy coaching rather than talk alone. Through somatic-based intimacy approach, clients engage in real-time, embodied experiences that support nervous system regulation, emotional safety, and deeper connection. This embodied approach to intimacy allows clients to receive guidance and feedback in the moment, helping them build fulfilling, connected sexual and relational experiences.

 

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Testimonials

  • Elizabeth
    I am now better at communicating my needs to my partner and asking for what I need. I am also more confident in my body. Thanks so much, Andre!
    Elizabeth
    London, UK
  • Tori
    I could feel myself release layers upon layers of all the walls I have built around my heart in order to protect myself. The safety and presence that Andre provided during our sessions has given me the courage to trust again. I now have tools that leave me feeling empowered along with a new sense of confidence around my relationships.
    Tori
    Dallas, USA
  • Lucas
    I was having issues with intimacy, and being present during sexual experiences. Andre helped me realize what I like, helped me channel that and be present during intimate journey. This drastically improved my quality of life and confidence.
    Lucas
    Portland, USA
  • Bella
    I felt safe to express my desires with Andre and sexy in my skin. Some of the tools we worked on will be used in my relationship moving forward. You won't regret working with Andre.
    Bella
    Asheville, USA

Have Questions?

or not sure if guided intimacy is right for you, feel free to email me at

andrelazarus@coming-closer.com

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Intimacy coaching

Frequently Asked Questions

1What does a relationship coach do?
A Relationship coach helps individuals or couples improve their relationships, understand datting patterns and build healthier emotional and physical connection.
2Is intimacy coaching only about sex?
No, intimacy coaching is not only about sex, it supports emotional closeness, boundaries,trust, and communication as well as physical intimacy
3Do I need to be in a relationship to start coaching?
No. Many people work with an online intimacy coach to understand their patterns before entering a relationship.
4Can coaching help if I feel stuck in repeating relationship problems?
Yes. Relationship coaching helps you notice habits and reactions that keep repeating and teaches new ways to respond.
5What happens in an intimacy coaching session?
Sessions involve conversation, reflection, and noticing body reactions, emotions, and communication patterns in real time.
6Is there physical contact during sessions?
No physical contact is required. Coaching focuses on awareness, discussion, and practical tools you can use in daily life.
7How long does relationship coaching take to work?
Some people notice changes in a few sessions. Deeper patterns usually improve over time with regular practice.
8Can coaching help even if my partner won’t join?
Yes. Working with a relationship coach alone can still change how you show up in relationships.
9Are online sessions effective?
Yes. Online intimacy coaching works well for communication skills, emotional awareness, and relationship patterns.
10What results can I expect from intimacy coaching?
Clients often experience better communication, clearer boundaries, more confidence, and deeper connection.