My Story

I'm Andre Lazarus and I'm a Somatic Intimacy Guide.

I’ve felt connected to my sexual energy all my life, but I didn’t always understand my full sexual power.

Growing up, I experienced sex differently from my friends, community, and the societal messaging that teaches us there are set rules and restrictions to sex, intimacy, and relationships.

At 19 years old, I had the unfortunate–or fortunate, depending on the viewpoint—journey of my first sexual experience being traumatic. I was raped. Little did I know how impactful that trauma would shape my life and the person I would become in this world.

I’ve always felt called to healing work; serving others is my passion. My next adventure would bring me to serve my country as a Marine Officer, deploying to war. During my service, I married my first true love, but realized monogamy was something expected by society and not my heart. After our divorce, I felt like a failure as a husband but could feel a big shift growing inside of me. It was after this life-changing moment that I started my new chapter in San Francisco and built a new life with my current partner of 6+ years.

With her support, I learned that I had a powerful gift to connect with people in a sexual space, helping to open-up sexual desires, removing shame around sexual exploration, and healing old wounds around abuse and sexual trauma. Through this transformative work I began to step into my full sexual power, which was more vibrant (maybe look up synonyms here) than I could have ever imagined. I came out as multisexual. While took me many years to realize my sexuality, the moment I did, I was able to fully embrace my power.

These days, I am empowered to bring my passion for sex and journey of self-discovery and transformation to your highest growth. This calling allows me to show up in service to your process and to guide you on your own journey of sexual embodiment. I am someone who loves connecting with sexual energy, other beings and love itself. To me, deep intimacy is the path to awakening our most powerful Self, and I’m excited to show you how to tap into this well of infinite energy!

Let's Come Closer.

With Love,
Andre Lazarus