Andre Lazarus - Sex and Intimacy Coach/Surrogate Partner

Offering Virtual and In-person sessions in the UK

Sex Coach and Surrogate Partner in the UK

Somatic intimacy support that feels safe, connected, and grounded

There comes a moment where you realize you’ve been carrying questions about intimacy for longer than you expected. Maybe you’re longing for more closeness. Maybe you want to feel confident again. Maybe something inside you is simply tired of trying to figure it all out alone.

Working with Andre Lazarus, a compassionate sex coach offering virtual and in-person sessions in the UK, gives you a place to slow down, breathe, and gently understand yourself in a new way, without pressure, judgement, or shame.

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Professional Intimacy Coach and Sex Surrogate Andre Lazarus appears on the new Channel 4 series Virgin Island, where he joins other experts to discuss therapeutic approaches to overcoming intimacy challenges. As a featured expert, Andre offers thoughtful guidance and real-world perspectives on how structured intimacy work can help clients build confidence and emotional connection.

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Meet Andre Lazarus

Not a fixer, not a guru, just a real human who knows how to hold space.

His somatic approach gently reconnects you with your body in a way that feels natural and kind, rather than analytical or overwhelming. He moves slowly, without pressure, and never asks you to be anything other than who you already are.

People often say talking with him makes intimacy feel surprisingly easy, like finally speaking with someone who understands both the challenges and the hope you’ve been carrying.
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Learning to Listen to Your Body Again

If you’re like most people, you’ve probably spent years overriding your body, telling yourself to “push through,” “be fine,” “stop overthinking.” It’s no wonder intimacy can feel confusing. Andre helps you rebuild a relationship with your body that feels safe. Not dramatic. Not overwhelming. Just small moments of noticing: “Oh… that’s what I’m feeling.” And that noticing often becomes the beginning of real change.

What Andre Helps With

Andre supports individuals and couples across the UK with things like:

  • conversations about intimacy that feel difficult or stuck
  • emotional closeness that feels out of reach
  • mismatched desire or shifting desire
  • confidence that has slowly faded
  • reconnecting to your body after stress or a long relationship
  • softening shame around intimacy, expression, or touch
  • navigating communication that keeps looping in the same patterns
  • finding clarity if you’re single and unsure what you want next
  • rapid ejaculation and erectile conerns for men
  • bdsm and kink eduction
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What Andre Helps With

When Intimacy Feels Complicated… But You Don’t Know Why

Most people don’t come to coaching because of one big moment, they come because something has felt “off” for a while. Maybe desire changed. Maybe communication feels harder than it used to. Maybe the connection has faded, even though nothing is “wrong” on the surface. It can be confusing, even lonely, to not understand what’s happening inside you or within your relationship. Andre helps you gently explore this space without pressure or self-judgment, simply with curiosity, compassion, and the reminder that nothing you’re feeling is unusual.

Frequently Asked Questions

1What actually happens in a session?
Think of it as a slow, supportive conversation. You talk, Andre listens, and together you explore what’s happening in your emotional and intimate world. Simple somatic tools may be introduced, but always gently and with your consent.
2How is coaching different from therapy?
Therapy often explores the past. Coaching looks at your present patterns and future possibilities. Andre blends somatic awareness and relationship support in a way that complements therapy but isn’t a replacement for it.
3Does he work with couples?
Yes. Couples often find having Andre there to learn new techniques and navigate challenging conversations as an essential tool for their relationship.
4Is everything confidential?
Absolutely. Your experiences are held with privacy, respect, and deep care.
5Are online sessions really effective?
Yes. Most clients in the UK choose online sessions because they feel more comfortable opening up from their own space, especially with those with busy lives.

A Gentle Invitation

If something about this page speaks to you, even quietly, you’re welcome to reach out. You don’t need certainty. You don’t need the “right” words. You just need a willingness to begin. Whether you’re seeking a sex coach in the UK, surrogate partner therapy, somatic intimacy coaching, or relationship support that feels genuinely human, Andre is here to walk with you at a pace that feels safe. Whenever you’re ready, the door is open.
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