Sex & Relationship Coach in the UK | Andre Lazarus
Andre Lazarus is a sex and intimacy coach in the UK, working with individuals and couples through somatic intimacy, communication, and embodied connection. Sessions are available online across the UK and in person in London.
Sex Coaching in the UK for Individuals & Couples
What Is Sex Coaching?
Sex coaching in the UK focuses on how intimacy actually shows up in real life — emotionally, physically, and relationally.
Rather than diagnosing or analysing the past, sex coaching looks at present-day patterns: how you respond to closeness, how communication breaks down, and how your body reacts when intimacy feels uncertain or tense. The work is practical, grounded, and forward-focused.
Rather than diagnosing or analysing the past, sex coaching looks at present-day patterns: how you respond to closeness, how communication breaks down, and how your body reacts when intimacy feels uncertain or tense. The work is practical, grounded, and forward-focused.
Who Sex Coaching Is For (UK)
This work supports:
Individuals feeling disconnected from desire, confidence, or intimacy
Couples experiencing communication issues, distance, or recurring conflict
People who have tried talking things through but still feel stuck
Sessions are offered online across the UK and in person in London, making the work accessible regardless of location.
Sessions are offered online across the UK and in person in London, making the work accessible regardless of location.
What Is Sex & Intimacy Coaching?
Sex and intimacy coaching is a non-clinical, consent-based form of coaching that helps people understand their relationship with intimacy, communication, desire, and connection.
Unlike therapy, sex coaching focuses on present-day experiences and embodied awareness rather than diagnosis or treatment of mental health conditions.The focus is on:
understanding intimacy patterns as they happen
improving emotional and sexual communication
building safety, consent, and clarity in connection
Unlike therapy, this approach is not about diagnosis or treatment. It’s about noticing what’s happening now — and learning how to respond differently when it matters.
Unlike therapy, sex coaching focuses on present-day experiences and embodied awareness rather than diagnosis or treatment of mental health conditions.The focus is on:
Unlike therapy, this approach is not about diagnosis or treatment. It’s about noticing what’s happening now — and learning how to respond differently when it matters.
How it differs from therapy:
Sex coaching and therapy serve different roles.
Therapy is designed to diagnose and treat mental health conditions, often focusing on past experiences and psychological frameworks.
Sex and intimacy coaching focuses on the present moment — helping clients build awareness, communication skills, and embodied confidence around intimacy and relationships. Coaching does not involve diagnosis or medical treatment.
Therapy is designed to diagnose and treat mental health conditions, often focusing on past experiences and psychological frameworks.
Sex and intimacy coaching focuses on the present moment — helping clients build awareness, communication skills, and embodied confidence around intimacy and relationships. Coaching does not involve diagnosis or medical treatment.
How Does Somatic Coaching Work?
Somatic coaching works with the body as well as the mind. Instead of only talking about experiences, sessions include guided awareness of physical sensations, emotional responses, and nervous system cues.
Many people understand their relationship challenges intellectually but still feel stuck. Somatic-based coaching slows things down and brings attention to physical signals such as tension, shutdown, anxiety, or overthinking.
This approach helps clients:
Recognise nervous system responses
Build awareness around safety and consent
Stay present during emotionally charged moments
Many people understand their relationship challenges intellectually but still feel stuck. Somatic-based coaching slows things down and brings attention to physical signals such as tension, shutdown, anxiety, or overthinking.
This approach helps clients:
Featured UK & International Media Expert
Professional Intimacy Coach for couples and Sex Surrogate Andre Lazarus appears on the new Channel 4 series Virgin Island, where he joins other experts to discuss therapeutic approaches to overcoming intimacy challenges. As a featured expert, Andre offers thoughtful guidance and real-world perspectives on how structured intimacy work and sex coaching in the UK can help clients build confidence.
Meet Andre Lazarus, Sex and Relationship Coach in the UK
Role: Sex & Intimacy Coach
Method: Somatic-based coaching
Location: UK (online) and London (in person)
Not a fixer, not a guru, just a real human who knows how to hold space.
Method: Somatic-based coaching
Location: UK (online) and London (in person)
Not a fixer, not a guru, just a real human who knows how to hold space.
Andre Lazarus works with people who want to understand intimacy beyond surface-level advice. His approach is calm, direct, and grounded in lived relational experience. Rather than offering scripts or quick fixes, Andre supports clients in noticing how they show up in connection — emotionally, physically, and relationally — and how those patterns can change with awareness and practice.According to Andre Lazarus, effective sex and intimacy coaching begins with safety, clear consent, and learning to listen to the body without judgment.
Learning to Listen to Your Body Again
If you’re like most people, you’ve probably spent years overriding your body, telling yourself to “push through,” “be fine,” “stop overthinking.” It’s no wonder intimacy can feel confusing. Through somatic intimacy coaching in the UK, Andre helps you rebuild a relationship with your body that feels safe. Not dramatic. Not overwhelming. Just small moments of noticing: “Oh… that’s what I’m feeling.” And that noticing often becomes the beginning of real change.
What Andre Helps With
Andre offers online intimacy coaching for individuals and couples who want practical, body-aware support around connection, confidence, and communication. His work is educational and coaching-based, not clinical therapy, and is designed to complement — not replace — licensed mental health care when needed:
- Conversations about intimacy that feel difficult or stuck
- Emotional closeness that feels out of reach
- Mismatched desire or shifting desire
- Confidence that has slowly faded
- Reconnecting to your body after stress or a long relationship
- Softening shame around intimacy, expression, or touch
- Navigating communication that keeps looping in the same patterns
- Finding clarity if you’re single and unsure what you want next
- Rapid ejaculation and erectile conerns for men
- Bdsm and kink eduction within a consent-focused, online intimacy coaching framework
When Intimacy Feels Complicated… But You Don’t Know Why
Most people don’t come to coaching because of one big moment, they come because something has felt “off” for a while. Maybe desire changed. Maybe communication feels harder than it used to. Maybe the connection has faded, even though nothing is “wrong” on the surface. It can be confusing, even lonely, to not understand what’s happening inside you or within your relationship.
Through individual sessions and couples intimacy counseling in the UK, Andre helps you gently explore this space without pressure or self-judgment, simply with curiosity, compassion, and the reminder that nothing you’re feeling is unusual.
Frequently Asked Questions
1What issues can a sex coach help with?
A sex coach can help with intimacy issues, low desire, performance anxiety, communication problems, shame around sex, dating confidence, and building healthier relationships.
2What actually happens in a session?
Think of it as a slow, supportive conversation. You talk, Andre listens, and together you explore what’s happening in your emotional and intimate world. Simple somatic tools may be introduced, but always gently and with your consent.
3How is coaching different from therapy?
Therapy often explores the past. Coaching looks at your present patterns and future possibilities. Andre blends somatic awareness and relationship support in a way that complements therapy but isn’t a replacement for it.
4Does he work with couples?
Yes. Couples often find having Andre there to learn new techniques and navigate challenging conversations as an essential tool for their relationship.
5Is everything confidential?
Absolutely. Your experiences are held with privacy, respect, and deep care.
6Are online sessions really effective?
Yes. Most clients in the UK choose online sessions because they feel more comfortable opening up from their own space, especially with those with busy lives.
7How much does sex coaching cost?
It usually costs around £95–£300 per hour in the UK. Some coaches also offer packages or online programs.
8Can sex therapy involve sex?
Nope. Sex therapy is just talking and exercises — no sexual contact with your therapist.
9What does a sex and relationship coach do?
They help you communicate better, feel more confident, and enjoy intimacy.
10What is the meaning of sexological?
It just means being trained in the study of human sexuality and relationships.
11Can you get a sex coach?
Yes! You can hire a sex coach to help with intimacy, confidence, and relationships.
A Gentle Invitation
If something about this page speaks to you, even quietly, you’re welcome to reach out. You don’t need certainty. You don’t need the “right” words. You just need a willingness to begin. Whether you’re seeking a sex coach in the UK, surrogate partner therapy, somatic intimacy coaching, or relationship support that feels genuinely human, Andre is here to walk with you at a pace that feels safe. Whenever you’re ready, the door is open.
