Have you ever felt stuck in your relationship — even when you know you love your partner?
Or experienced a block in your sexual desire, even when you “should” feel connected?
Maybe you’ve tried talking, reading, or even therapy… but something still isn’t shifting.
That’s because intimacy doesn’t live in the mind alone.
It lives in your body.
And that’s where somatic coaching comes in.
What Is Somatic Coaching?
The word “somatic” comes from the Greek word soma, meaning “the living body.”
Unlike traditional talk therapy, somatic coaching works directly with the nervous system, the body, and its felt sensations — not just your thoughts and stories.
Why does this matter?
Because your body holds everything you’ve ever lived through:
💔 Breakups
🧠 Trauma
🚫 Rejection
💡 Joy
🔥 Desire
All of it lives not just in your memories, but in your muscles, breath, and nervous system.
And if your body still feels unsafe, stressed, or shut down — it doesn’t matter how much you “talk it out.” Real intimacy will feel distant, awkward, or even impossible.
Why Somatic Work Is a Game-Changer for Relationships and Sex
When couples struggle with disconnection, sexlessness, or emotional distance, it’s not always because of a lack of love.
More often, it’s because their bodies no longer feel safe, seen, or desired.
Somatic coaching helps you:
✨ Release old patterns stored in your body
✨ Heal shame and trauma that block desire
✨ Relearn safety and pleasure through body awareness
✨ Build emotional closeness from the inside out
When your body starts to feel safe and alive again, love and sexual connection naturally return. This isn’t about fixing you — it’s about remembering the wholeness you already hold.
Somatic Coaching Isn’t Just for One Type of Person
Whether you’re:
- A man struggling in a sexless marriage
- A woman feeling shut down after trauma or disconnection
- A couple craving to reignite your passion
- An individual wanting to reconnect with your body and pleasure
Somatic work offers a gentle, powerful pathway back home to yourself.
My Work As a Somatic Relationship & Intimacy Coach
I work with individuals and couples who feel stuck, unseen, or sexually disconnected — even if they’ve tried everything else.
Through 1:1 coaching, self-paced courses, and body-based practices, I help you:
❤️ Reclaim your connection to desire
❤️ Release blocks that hold you back from love and intimacy
❤️ Create safety and spark inside your relationship — both emotionally and sexually
Because real intimacy isn’t about doing more. It’s about feeling more.
And your body knows the way.
Ready to Reconnect With Your Body and Your Desire?
If you’ve been stuck, lonely, or frustrated — I see you.
You don’t have to figure this out on your own. I’m here to walk with you.
👉 Book a private session to explore somatic intimacy coaching
or
👉 Join one of my courses designed for deeper connection, healing, and sexual wholeness.
Your body is always speaking.
Let me help you listen.
Andre Lazarus is a Certified Intimacy, Sex and Relationship Guide, trained Surrogate Partner, as well as Sacred Intimate with 9+ years of experience helping individuals and couples discover their intimate and erotic power. Andre specializes in erotic desire, sexless relationships, sexual trauma healing, erectile concerns, rapid ejaculation, BDSM, consensual non-monogamy, and more.
Book a discovery call and enroll into my courses to discover a deeper connection to yourself and your partner!
